When you are with a woman it is very important for you to be yourself. Don’t let her meet your representative. If there is a “clash” in personalities, then you’ll both drive each other crazy. Listen carefully to her comments and complaints, because I have learned the hard way that these innocent comments really possess some deep underlying meanings. "Hun, do you know my ring size?"

Take time to absorb the “awe” of her radiant natural beauty. If she likes the way you hold her, don’t be afraid to caress her body. Do this until she feels you touching her, even when you are not there with her.

Sometimes it is necessary to be firm with your decisions and choices in relationships. This is due to the fact that you have to let her know seriously what your likes and dislikes are. Don’t always be nice when deep down inside you are dying; lay your cards on the table and let her know your part of the story. However, be wise and choose your words carefully. Women remember everything you say, trust me. Now at this point in time you both know where the relationship is going and now you both have some perspective.

Communication skills are important in relationships. If she does something that really hurts you, look deep in her eyes when you are talking to her, so she understands how serious the situation is. "Hun, we really DO need to see my family."

Be careful of how much you love a woman. If the level of love that you both possess for each other is different, then this might cause the love boat to “topple over.” This is due to the fact that her or your level of interest or involvement in the relationship might be totally different. This will cause some serious conflicts as time passes. "Hun, we really need to take a step back."

If she is having a bad day, please listen to her stories. Give advice where necessary and try to always be on her side. Make her laugh during these spells; you’ll soon become her hero and she will run to you as her refuge in times of trouble. This sparks the beginning of a special friendship.

Finally, take time out to learn how she wants to be kissed. Practice kissing her like this all the time; take note of her physical reactions. From her kisses you can soon tell what’s wrong with her (ie. If there is a problem). Most importantly if you satisfy her lips, then all other things will fall into place, given time and patience.

One final advice I can give you. When you find her, love her with every breath you take, until you can see your unborn children in her eyes.